What to do when dating a married man

Our manufactured outrage and new-found moralism obscures the fact that to a lot of women, an affair seems like quite a sensible proposition.

Look at the cultural crap-storm has bred this perfect atmosphere for adultery.

With Dan, the excitement was climbing the steps to his third-floor apartment.

I rarely took the elevator because I wanted to prolong the jittery expectation and breathlessness that accompanied his opening the door.

a.k.a He'll NEVER stay that into you There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.

Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing.

Men who find out will think you’re an easy target for unwanted attention.

Then came the florid compliments, the praising of my dress, my body, which was so different from that of his soon-to-be-ex-wife, my appearing years younger than 37, 38, 39.

With Tom, the excitement is my opening the door to his slow smile.

In fact you may be just the latest in a long line of ego boosts that he obviously needs. If you are (un)lucky enough to have him eventually leave his wife you would always wonder…

Whatever the reason it’s unlikely that there will be a happy ever after as you’ll never ever be able to trust him.

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